TailsTellsTales

I really hope you aren’t serious...I can’t even tell at this point.

Just in case you are and because I care I’m going to cut to the chase and tell you that drugs aren’t the answer and will only make things worse for you and there is something you can do about this problem of loneliness. Complaining about it isn’t it.

Also

Look, we get it; life sucks and things don’t seem to be getting better. We’ve all been there (or are still there) and it’s not something we want to happen.

But you have really got to stop with this nonstop parade of self defeating moaning. You’re only making it harder for you to start making a change to your life and also making it seem like all you can do is complain while seemingly making no effort to improve your circumstances.

And I’m gonna be frank; if you hate existing so much, why do you constantly keep on living? Why do you keep getting up everyday to do these things if you hate it so much?

I think it’s because underneath the constant moaning and groaning, there is some part of you who still wants to get better, some part of you that knows you can do better. But you’re never going to get better until YOU are willing to actually get better. We can try to help you. We can support you from a distance. But YOU need to be willing to improve! 

I don't have anything to say except that I'll be showing this to my therapist. Can't you see I just want a friend. Just one. I pray and pray sometimes to God that one day I could just have one, just one, all I need is one. That's all. Also y'all made me cry. And I really want to say very bad things but I be "adult" and leave it at that. I don't need y'all help in hurting me. I am more than capable of doing that myself. Now go ahead and say something snappy and mean which 50 people will like because people always like posts where somebody says mean things to people.

No one is being mean here. We are just trying to help. 

After trying to help you for YEARS (and not giving up on you) I learned that being stern is more effective hence why I and others are doing it. It’s called “tough love”. 

In all honesty you are doing absolutely nothing to better yourself. Not to say it’s easy but you aren’t even trying at this point. I don’t know how to get it through to you that complaining accomplishes absolutely nothing.

Yet people out the kindness of their heart still try to help you and not only disregard them but you continue doing the same things over and over again which makes you look obnoxious and like an ingrate too.

Real talk this behavior is disruptive to the boards here and it needs to stop. I wasn’t joking about your status privileges being taken away and things like this are exactly the reason why I even said it so please stop.  

I have one but he seems more interested in hanging out with his other friends than me so...

@TailsTellsTales Most people will only be able to count the number of real "close" friends (the lifelong kind) across their entire lives on but one hand. You don't have one now, but you may in time. Never say never, so don't close yourself off entirely. Humans are social animals and we fare better with a certain amount of social contact.

@Maxtiis Sounds like your friendship has become one-sided. Natural drifting apart?

I don't have any real close friends, lifelong or otherwise. Several years back, my depression got so bad that I began isolating myself from people. Now having major social anxiety, I'm trying to undo that mistake.

I don't intend to give up, despite a couple of failed attempt while attending conventions. 

If you start censoring “friends”...you know what? I’m not going to entertain that obnoxiousness. Let’s address the actual issue here. 

Friends let alone close friends isn’t something that falls into your lap. It’s something that takes time and effort to develop.

An imperative to friendships is remembering it’s not about what you get but what you GIVE. You have to have something to bring to the table as well as take a genuine interest in others. Be friendly and take the initiative. And these things aren’t a one-time deal as they must be constantly shown in order for the friendship to grow.

And real talk you have got to tone down on the negativity. It’s a real turnoff and does the opposite of drawing others to you. You can’t make or maintain friendships when you’re constantly tearing down as opposed to building up as the latter is supposed to be in a friendship. 

Having close friends isn’t some impossible feat but some action, effort and a major attitude change is in order for you the way I see it at least as this is not something you’re destined to being without. 

Hi Kiah! Why is it so much easier as kids but downright impossible as you get older? It seems like you can never find anybody with the same interests as yourself.

Also I looked back at my older status from years back few days ago and they are much less negative than today. I will say something that will be kind of shocking, at my job it's the opposite, I get told by my boss that I have positive attitude and rarely complain which is weird.

@Maxtiis That sounds like the dreaded third wheel scenario.

@DanJ86 Yes keep trying to become more brave. I might have social anxiety since it really hard for me to talk with people unless I know them.

Water, but with less pollution and dissolved carbon. Any other liquid would immediately kill all aquatic life and definitely doom humanity.

I would have to put that power in my pocket and use it like never. 

Water is something we all need to live on top of the beauty factor. Swimming in mayonnaise ain’t my cup of tea and wouldn’t be pretty either. 

@Kiah You almost made me choke on pineapple drink when reading the mayonnaise part. Lol.

I am surprised nobody is curious to see what the oceans would be as different liquids.

curiosity killed the cat.

or in this case, the fish.

@TailsTellsTales Hmm, I wonder...could it be because the ocean being a different liquid is something no one other than a supervillain would ever want ever? It's something to ponder...

I’m not interested in silly shenanigans that would result in the destruction of Earth in any way, shape or form. That’s all 🙂

Clean water.

Now I can fix pollution in the ocean with just a touch! If it doesn't kill all sea life, hopefully...

@Polkadithat's the best answer ever!

"I'd need to get all the money into my bank account before I can make a decision on this matter."

To be honest no.

Its like asking to fuck over the planet for money. People are doing it all the time yeah but you might as well be calling the horsemen of the apocalypse over.

Do I look like a over the top Saturday morning cartoon villain to you? 

Only if I get to spend part of that re-freezing them.

...honestly I'm not convinced it'd take the whole trillion to do that.

Not sure if this is a question, or a really good metaphor LOL

No. It would be too much hassle to convert it into my local currency....and because of Brexit and the devalue of the pound, it'll probably end up being converted into something like £1.50.

Only if all it's inhabitants are exvacuated and move into a safe new habitat first, where they can adapt and evolve in peace.

Despite the problems that will arise, I do belive that the polar ice caps can't stay on this Earth forever. The world is technically still in the ice age, and they are the two things that prove it's still here.

I’d rather not destroy anything in the place we call home. Not all the money in the world would be worth doing such a thing.

Especially since there are highly likely adverse and even permanent effects to doing that which would affect everyone on the planet including myself that money could do absolutely nothing to fix. So absolutely not.

@Kiah You could buy a boat?

I think I was the only one that replied with a joke. 

Hmmm... wow I ask some crazy things sometimes. See ya.

So basically the plot to Benjamin Button then?

So one would be born with Arthritis/Alzheimers, it would eventually get better after about 40 years or so of life. Then, once you reach the baby phase, you would start breaking down into a fetus, which would be equally horrifying and painful. I think I'll pass.

Go to the one which is your favorite.

But Popeye's is not in walking distance. Of the 4 listed it would be Kum & Go.

I thought Kum & Go was a brothel.

Glad to see the guy from Pound Puppies managed to find legitimate business for himself. 

Kum & Go's are very fancy type gas stations.

You shouldn't eat gasoline.

You shouldn't drink it either.

wth

Cook your own food and bring it with you

weaklings. i eat gasoline on my pancakes, and i only explode fifteen times a day!

*grabs cane*

kids these days.

@Indigo Rush That could work. I just mainly wanted to enjoy the nice day and walk somewhere mainly. I could bring something to eat at K&G.

Just be honest and say that right now you just really need to reduce your work hours so you can bring your studies more into the foreground. Whatever he says he can't fault you for being honest.

You’re making this much more complicated than it needs to be. There’s nothing to rehearse or really think about here.

Just be straight up honest and tell your boss that working 5 days a week and going to school is taking a huge toll on you and mention the specifics including with school and especially your health so that your boss can get the sense of urgency with your situation.

Then make your request to work 4 days instead of 5. The worst that could likely happen here is you being told “no” but you at least have to try. The sooner you do this the better so you know how to move forward based on the decision.

Thank you Kiah, I will add that to my practice test. I need to ask before Tuesday. Everytime I role play I just end up pausing awkwardly after not knowing how to put into words. Not to mention it feels like everybody is expected to work 40 hours regardless of part time or full time status. But I will try and sorry if it seems making it more complicated than it needs to be.

Wow where did you get that?

It came from right here.

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Classic tails is so freaking adorable.

I literally can´t wait for the SMA Short with those coloured animations (grin, smile and "I told ya" expression in the bottom)