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anna

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    anna reacted to The drunkard from space! in what's everyone been up to?   
    Playing some Manic Lost World cause I can lulz
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    anna reacted to Polkadi~☆ in what's everyone been up to?   
    playing some sa2
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    anna reacted to Polkadi~☆ in Hrm... My best friend tried to proclaim is love to a girl, who is another one of my f   
    I've known him for years, he's a cool guy, we play video games together online with our other friends included. This is the first time he's done this. So, needless to say, I'm not going to dump him and say he's not my friend anymore. That's stupid. Especially when he doesn't know that I know about this.
    What I am going to do is talk to him about it, and tell him it's not acceptable. Love is a fickle thing, and it can be dangerous when it overpowers you. He's going to learn that now, and get his act together. All of his friends want to see him improve.
    And the girl is still part of our circle of friends, she still plays video games, who cares? If she doesn't want a relationship right now, he shouldn't throw a fit over it, she's still a friend at the end of the day. And don't go insulting her, either... And don't insult everyone else for it :/
    Thank you, guys and gals, I'll go figure this out.
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    anna got a reaction from Polkadi~☆ in Hrm... My best friend tried to proclaim is love to a girl, who is another one of my f   
    If he's going to act like that, I wouldn't consider him a friend. Easier said than done, I know, but honestly? If I were you, I would call him out on it; talk to him. Tell him what he did wrong, why such a reaction is really awful. He might legit not know, and even if he does, he clearly needs to hear it.
    How could he feel that this girl is obligated to love him back? Then do a 180 and call the person he supposedly loves a slut?
    Tell him if he's this kind of person, maybe he should go find some other people to hang out with. 
    And if he's sorry, he shouldn't apologize to you. 
    He should apologize to her, and to the rest of your friends, too. He should own up to what he did and explain himself (see: explain. Not make excuses.) and if he doesn't, well.
    Don't try to make him. If he's going to ruin his friendship with you and the rest of your friends, that's on him. If he walks away, that's on him.
    It might be hard, but it's necessary. You'd be doing him a favor, anyway. In the long run, maybe it'll teach him to treat people like human beings and that no one owes him anything. That people aren't going to like you if you throw a tantrum for not getting what you want. Ya know?
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    anna got a reaction from MightyRay in Hrm... My best friend tried to proclaim is love to a girl, who is another one of my f   
    If he's going to act like that, I wouldn't consider him a friend. Easier said than done, I know, but honestly? If I were you, I would call him out on it; talk to him. Tell him what he did wrong, why such a reaction is really awful. He might legit not know, and even if he does, he clearly needs to hear it.
    How could he feel that this girl is obligated to love him back? Then do a 180 and call the person he supposedly loves a slut?
    Tell him if he's this kind of person, maybe he should go find some other people to hang out with. 
    And if he's sorry, he shouldn't apologize to you. 
    He should apologize to her, and to the rest of your friends, too. He should own up to what he did and explain himself (see: explain. Not make excuses.) and if he doesn't, well.
    Don't try to make him. If he's going to ruin his friendship with you and the rest of your friends, that's on him. If he walks away, that's on him.
    It might be hard, but it's necessary. You'd be doing him a favor, anyway. In the long run, maybe it'll teach him to treat people like human beings and that no one owes him anything. That people aren't going to like you if you throw a tantrum for not getting what you want. Ya know?
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    anna reacted to The drunkard from space! in Hrm... My best friend tried to proclaim is love to a girl, who is another one of my f   
    He doesn't sound like a friend to me. If I was in your position I'd confront this "friend" and give 'em a piece of my mind.
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    anna reacted to Rusty Spy in Hrm... My best friend tried to proclaim is love to a girl, who is another one of my f   
    No it's not.
    That ain't no friend
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